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Nan Tepper's avatar

Have a wonderful time in the UK. Try not to worry about things you can't control and have a blast. You deserve it.

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Susie Middleton's avatar

I so enjoyed this tonight. Thank you. Fragmentation is a great word for what that entails. But you have given us so many ways to work with it. I am so excited for your trip and all those gardens you are going to visit.

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Michelle Gallacher's avatar

Thank you for making me smile and giving me hope on a difficult day. I will reread this often to inspire and nurture.🥰💖🏆

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Marcia Lippman's avatar

bless you dear girl.... You clearly have three hours more each day than I do.

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Ann's avatar

If you can, take a double decker bus down a leafy country road. And if you can visit the Flackley Ash, a memorable stay on my English garden tour.

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Liz Sweeney's avatar

Thank you for every word of this.

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Eileen Dougharty's avatar

What a bounty of creative joys to explore! Labneh and cherry tomatoes on everything, please.

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Lorene Edwards Forkner's avatar

What a rich source of comfort and balm! Thank you Elissa. Earlier this spring I tasted a radish that changed me. My friend came up with a way to "temper" dill butter so it was thin enough to enrobe the radish like chocolate on a Dilly Bar. So beautiful, so good. I have yet to attempt this seeming magic myself, although tonight I'll pick snap peas and their greens to wilt into lemon pasta and top with homemade ricotta cheese. Meals, art, books and loved ones are keeping me together.

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Binnie Klein's avatar

....from radishes to music....I appreciate these lists...I'd love for you to check out my debut album, "The Quiver" from In These Trees and Tartie..... (from a late-in-life songwriter and her Australian singer/songwriter collaborator).....

www.inthesetrees.bandcamp.com

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torri blue's avatar

Ever since your post from a year or two ago, the one in which you talked about asparagus taking two years to grow etc., I think of you every time we cook asparagus. What a magical plant. Thanks for this <3

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Jan Elisabeth's avatar

This was such solace. Enjoy the trip.

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Musho Rodney Greenblat's avatar

Dear Elissa, lovely post. My father is now in a memory care home. I love your metaphor of the of a boat full of holes. "And no amount of patching will keep us from sinking." We are all sinking - if only more people could just enjoy the boat ride.

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Anita Darcel Taylor's avatar

Not quite the subject, but attached is a little piece from the magazine "Cereal" on Great Dixter Garden that I thought you'd enjoy.

https://www.readcereal.com/articles/great-dixter#833

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Kris's avatar

Thank you Elissa. Beautiful start to my day. I am experiencing similar w my 95 yo mother and find comfort in your writings! Xoxo Kris

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Barbara Hand's avatar

I love “The Girl”…..that was…is me.

Thank you for these beautiful essays. They are such a balm for me❤️

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Chris J. Rice's avatar

Thank you

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